Ankita Konwar on relationship with Milind Soman: People said I was 12 when I met him

In her latest post, Ankita Konwar spoke about things that people said to her regarding her relationship with Milind Soman.

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Ankita Konwar talks about things that people said about her relationship. Photo: Instagram/ Ankita Konwar
Ankita Konwar talks about things that people said about her relationship. Photo: Instagram/ Ankita Konwar

Ankita Konwar and Milind Soman are famous for their workout routines and clean eating habits. But that is not all, the two are also known to speak their minds. Ankita is doing so in her latest post as well.

Today, she shared a throwback picture of herself and gave a long heartfelt caption with it. She spoke about the time people found out about her relationship with Milind and gave details of what she went through at the time.

Ankita wrote, “#throwback to a time when people decided I was 16 (or 18 at times, depending on their mood) and brewed all kinds of crazy stories around me and my then boyfriend/now husband. Some even went up to say that I must have been 12 when he met me since they ‘heard from somewhere' that we have been together for 4 years already. So let me just put it this way, people will talk because most of them lack common sense (sic).”

#throwback to a time when people decided I was 16 (or 18 at times, depending on their mood) and brewed all kinds of crazy stories around me and my then boyfriend/now husband Some even went up to say that I must have been 12 when he met me since they “heard from somewhere” that we have been together for 4 years already So let me just put it this way, people will talk because most of them lack common sense. Also some of them have absolutely nothing better to do than speak less of someone else online because they clearly lack courage and self respect. And most of these people have never experienced love in their lives. They need help; mentally, physically, spiritually. But never get it because of their attitudes and the environment they probably live in. So next time you hear something bad about yourself or see a hate comment, just understand that they are taking out their frustration by believing and saying something less of you. In a way, you’re still helping them But please don’t start an argument with them because that’s what they want, attention. Because they have been so deprived of it. They will always believe you are doing what you’re doing only for attention, however good that may be. You see, they can only see their own reflection in you. They only understand the world they have seen so far. Where they’ve been hurt, wounded and never healed. Their parents probably could never teach them what is good behaviour or right from wrong. It is impossible for them to believe that ‘good’ can actually exist, love actually exists So just keep yourself away from all this negativity and don’t take them seriously. Blocking is always a good option too And hope they heal. So that the world is a better place someday. Oh btw, how I dealt with it at that time? Laughed at every trash of a news article or every hate comment together with my husband. Always grateful for the laughter those people and their sick mentality brought us though Here’s to always being and staying positive . . #throwbackthursday #throwback #realtalk #trolls #mentalhealthawareness #peopleareawesome #hearttoheart

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She added, “Also some of them have absolutely nothing better to do than speak less of someone else online because they clearly lack courage and self respect. And most of these people have never experienced love in their lives. They need help; mentally, physically, spiritually. But never get it because of their attitudes and the environment they probably live in (sic).”

She also gave tips on how to deal with these bullies. Ankita mentioned, “So next time you hear something bad about yourself or see a hate comment, just understand that they are taking out their frustration by believing and saying something less of you. In a way, you’re still helping them. But please don’t start an argument with them because that’s what they want, attention. Because they have been so deprived of it. They will always believe you are doing what you’re doing only for attention, however good that may be. You see, they can only see their own reflection in you. They only understand the world they have seen so far. Where they’ve been hurt, wounded and never healed. Their parents probably could never teach them what is good behaviour or right from wrong. It is impossible for them to believe that ‘good’ can actually exist, love actually exists (sic).”

She concluded while talking about how she dealt with such people, “So just keep yourself away from all this negativity and don’t take them seriously. Blocking is always a good option too. And hope they heal. So that the world is a better place someday. Oh btw, how I dealt with it at that time? Laughed at every trash of a news article or every hate comment together with my husband. Always grateful for the laughter those people and their sick mentality brought us though. Here’s to always being and staying positive (sic).”

Ankita Konwar and Milind Soman got married two years ago in a private ceremony in Alibaug.

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